I would like to welcome any piece of advice offer by the mass of the forum about how a lady should be treated in in bed or out of the bed. This has always been one of the main question in the mind of a man, how to make his lady feels like she's on top of the world.

I'm fairly new to the forum, I'm 19 and still a virgin and I know I have a lot of turn and would like any possible advice.

Please your comments are very appreciated. Thank You.

 

Don't try to impress her as a high roller but not a cheapskate either. Be respectful, be a gentleman and be decisive in carrying out your plans for the date that evening. In other words, have somewhat of an agenda set for the evening. It can be flexible. Just don't pick her up at her place expecting her to come up with ideas. One exception may be if you're out of town and not familar with the area.

Have a sense of humor, have some laughs and relax. Let the evening flow. Don't be pushy for sex. Be accepting of how far she is allowing things to progress when you return her home - be it a hug, kiss, or invitation inside.

 

thanks for the, it was quite informative, I'll keep those things in mind when I go out with a girl.

 

Be the best "you" you can be. It seems like most girls are good at seeing through a facade and they'll figure you're just a jerk in hiding.

 

cool, thank you, I'll definitely keep that in mind, I try to be as honest as possible especially when it comes to woman. Really appreciate the advice.

 

If she starts to pull moves on you, say something like, "I don't think we're ready for that yet. I want our first time together to be perfect."

She'll be depressed, or a little upset at first, but when she gets over it, she'll come to respect you more, and therefore, want to fuck your brains out.

And when the time comes, let her be on top. She'll feel like you not only respect her, but love her for who she is, and that you care about the relationship, and not about the sex. This will be put together with her own sex abilities, and she'll be flyin so damn high...just be sure not to back down on these (presumed) promises.

 

lol that sure is quite in depth, thanks man for the advice, reverse psychology... very nice!

 

It really depends on the woman. We're not all similar enough for anything to always be right.

 

Ah I see, well let's change the question using the women who responds to this thread as an example.

How would one come about to pleasing you?

 

It's not about what pleases me. It's about what pleases HER. If she tells you to do something, to touch her in a certain way, LISTEN. If she's shy and doesn't volunteer the information, ASK. Tell her "Tell me what feels good. I want to make you feel as good as you make me feel." Touch her all over. Get to know every inch of her body. We're more than boobs and butt and pussy. Many women have "hot spots" that aren't in places you wouldn't normally expect to be - the curve of her neck, the small of her back, her belly button. Who knows? You get to explore and find out.

Tell her what pleases you. She wants to be a good lover too. If she's shy about touching you, gently guide her hand to where you want to be touched. Encourage her to touch YOU all over and get to know your body. You probably have hot spots that you didn't even know about.

I know this can be difficult for a young man, but go slow. If you sense she's uncomfortable it probably means that things are moving too fast. It never hurts to take a little break and just hold each other and kiss.

Remember to say her name. Not all the time, but occasionally. It's just as easy to say "Oh Mary" as it is to say "Oh God"! Just keep that in the back of your head and it will become a habit.

Remember that what you've seen in pornography is nothing like real life. Things should go slower. There should be a lot more foreplay, a lot more kissing. And for God's sake don't cum in her face! You may get to a point where that's something that y'all want to try, but not right away.

That's all I can think of. It's time to go to bed.

 

I agree! Many guys put on a facade and even if we don't see through it in the beginning, sooner or later your true self will be revealed. Maybe you were able to get her in bed, but what if you end up having feelings for her and then she finds out you are just a liar? Never ends well with that type of beginning.

As far as in bed. Read the posts that women write here. You will find that women are like finger prints, none are exactly the same. The key to being a good lover is to care about the needs of your partner. Maybe you will find out that you are not into the same things that your partner is into, but if you are trying to find common ground it usually turns out quite nice

One final note. It is nice to respond to questions like this. After wading through the sewer of threads here, it is nice to have an honest question submitted by what seems like a sincere guy.

Love Megan

 

First, tack into the wind, and lean hard into it, until you come about. Then, if she is close, drop your sails and glide in

 

really awesome advice, thank you, you're right it can be hard for a guy to slow down, but I will keep that in mind when i'm with a lady, the name calling is a really good tip, appreciate it ladygodiva

 

thank you Megan, I just want to find out what a woman truly wants from a guy in how to make her happy and please her, sure sex is sex but there are ways to do it, so the purpose of this thread was to be able to really get a respond from the women of the forum so that all the guys can learn from this. I'm happy that you like responding, and thank you for responding your advice is greatly appreciated.

 

well you could try finding parts of her body that really turn her on with your lips fingers hands and don't just think that her parts you find hot are the ones that will drive her crazy horny

 

ah ok thanks dragon'scock, yea I can understand that us guys tend just to go where we want to go and that is really a bad move, thanks for the really good advice about that, I'll be sure to look for her spots when I'm with a woman.

 

money

period

nothing else does the trick my friend orgasms come and go and you can only do so many asskissing things before she becomes bored. moeny.

 

haha, i think your advice may holds true for certain situation but even then my money won't last forever, eventhough an orgasms come and go but it will always be there.

 

this is what happens when youre young and dumb youre still a fuckin romantic!

keep telling yourself anything other than $$$$$$ keeps her hanging on and pricks like me will keep stealing your women from you but only if theyr;e fuckable

 

you may be right and you may be wrong, I respect your opinion and you're way of thinking, it just depends on the type of women really, but thanks for your advice though.